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 |  موضوع: It teaches a great Lesson and I hope you read and enjoy السبت 09 أكتوبر 2010, 13:49 | |
|    There was a boy who was always losing his temper.
His father gave him a bag full of nails and said to him,
“My son, I want you to hammer a nail into our garden fence every
time you need to direct your anger against something and
you lose your temper.”
So the son started to follow his father’s advice. On the first day
he hammered in 37 nails, but getting the nails into the fence
was not easy, so he started trying to control himself and try not to lose his temper.
As the days went by, he was hammering in less nails, and within
weeks he was able to control himself and was able to refrain from
getting and from hammering nails. He came to his father and told him
what he had achieved. His father was with his efforts and said to
him: “But now, my son, you have to take out a nail for
every day that you do not get angry.”
The son started to take out the nails for each day that he
did not get angry, until there were no nails left in the fence.
He came to his father and told him what he had achieved.
His father took him to the fence and said, “My son, you have
done well, but look at these holes in the fence. This fence
will never be the same again.” Then he added: “When you say
things in a state of anger, they leave marks like these holes
on the hearts of others. You can stab a person and withdraw the knife
but it doesn’t matter how many times you say ‘I’m sorry,’ because
the wound will remain.
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barhoumia281
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| | موضوع: Anger السبت 09 أكتوبر 2010, 17:04 | |
| Hi Friend I love the subject, "anger", it is the worst moment when the human being can't control himself and make mistakes and it's really hard to fix after that,but it's a normal act when someone feels that something is not right, and it can be really danger when he can't manage his anger ,to be patient and calm,and let it go is the best thing he can do .It may be a poison in a relationship, in this case dear friend we need always many nails and a big fence and a hummer ,but it's not easy as the father said to fix the fence when we take of all nails, when we heart the feelings of others. I love the Korean proverb which says : If you kick a stone in anger ,you'll hurt your own foot
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